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Tuesday, January 13, 2009

BT and FFB's an addendum

What I wrote previously is valid for a couple that is in the early shidduch parsha (early 20's) but I would like to point out that once the parties involved are older (28 and up) then the picture may vary.
The FFB, in the intervening years has certainly had more contact with the world at large, and has assimilated a lot more of a veltishe point of view than when they were in their 20's and closer to the years in Yeshivah and Seminary.
In that respect you might say that a BT and an FFB might find more things they agree on than before. It is true though, that even at this stage, each case should be considered individually on its merits. We are all different and what goes for one does not apply to the other.

So I still think that it is easier to match two BT than a BT and an FFB but it is a lot more likely to succeed if the couple is older rather than younger.

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