tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794880599062240721.post2838021772652436700..comments2013-11-23T21:29:09.029-05:00Comments on Finding A Needle In A Haystack: Waiting for loveBasmelechhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04278850592585606329noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1794880599062240721.post-19364319526110362652012-01-10T22:26:47.863-05:002012-01-10T22:26:47.863-05:00I'm *still* in dating, and my thoughts are tha...I'm *still* in dating, and my thoughts are that most folks <br />1) Do not have the necessary skill set for dating and evaluating what they should do or look for while they are dating. Sure some people read some " books" but that doesnt teach them how to think, or prepare someone to give of themselves (ahava) (which is req'd in dating and forsure throughout the marriage). We live in a me generation..what can s/he do for me? I see it in both guys and girls who expect to be taken care of during the date rather than ensuring the other person has a good time (giving of themselves).<br />2) Maturity.<br />3) The community at large has changed. How many different areas of orthodoxy are there these days? How many schools of thought (one with tv, one without internet etc) 4)The roles of Men and Women have changed.Sinoreply@blogger.com